She’s not different.

She hasn't had special treatment. No hidden secret success that you don’t know about.

She wasn't born with natural charisma. She's not incredibly confident all the time. She doesn't have 'family money'. She most likely started with an idea, a laptop and a few friends/family to support her.

You know what the difference is, between you and her? Because she’s not different to you.

It's pretty simple.

She believed in herself. She believed she could do it. She wasn't sitting there watching 'successful' people thinking 'what do they have that I don't?'. NO. She was sitting there making it happen. She was doing the work. Practising being on camera. Honing her skills. Understanding her audience.

She wasn't waiting around for some magical, elusive fairy to tap her on the head and bestow this unwavering confidence and undeniable charm that will effortlessly guide her through to unimaginable success!

NO. NO. NO.

It's so easy to fall into this comparison trap. If you're not doing X, Y, Z then you're never going to make it. Ew. Your success is up to you and the people you're looking up to online are literally no different to you. They've just believed in themselves and didn't care what other people online were doing.

So, what are you going to do? How are you going to stand out? How are you going to make your brand/business so incredibly undeniable? How are you going to become a force to be reckoned with?